By Dianne Schilling
Recently pummeled by a media barrage of
year-end images, political and economic forecasts, and droll
lists of the best and worst trivia of the year, many of us feel
motivated to begin the year with a new year's resolution or two.
With the feasting over and the leftovers gone, what better
time to lose a few pounds, or start an exercise program?
January 1 represents a new beginning, a fresh start, an ideal
opportunity to get organized, look for a better job, take a
class, revitalize a relationship—you name it.
Unfortunately, like the holiday lights,
most resolutions find themselves on the shelf within a few
short weeks. As we relax into familiar routines and habits,
the prospect of making change no longer feels exciting, it
feels arduous. When that happens, we lose our resolve.
In the New Year, Set Goals
This year when you contemplate making a new
year's resolution, immediately calendar a 30-minute session
with yourself to do the real work of goal setting. Resolutions
are often just wishful thinking, but a goal acts like a map,
guiding you to your destination.
Imagine two drivers starting off from the
same point. One has a destination in mind (her goal), which is
laid out for her on a map (her plan). She can drive straight
there without any wasted time or wrong turns. The other driver
has no destination and no map. She starts off at the same time
from the same place as the first driver, but meanders
aimlessly around, never getting anywhere, using up gas and
oil. Which driver would you rather be?
Goals are not difficult to set.
Furthermore, when they are realistic and accompanied by good
planning, they often are not difficult to achieve. That
doesn't mean that hard work isn't involved. Earning a degree,
for example, is no cakewalk. But a well-devised goal and plan
have a built-in mega-horsepower engine—very useful when the
road gets rough.
Make Them SMART Goals
Brain research tells us that writing down
something increases the likelihood that it will be committed
to long-term memory. The additional musculature and sensory
input provided by writing and reading strengthen pathways in
the brain. So if you want a goal to stick, the first thing you
should do is write it down (or keyboard it into your
computer).
A written goal can be reviewed regularly
and is harder to neglect or forget. Furthermore, writing a
goal forces you to test your vision against certain
requirements. To turn a new year's resolution into a SMART
goal, you must make it:
1. Specific
Say exactly what you want to accomplish,
with as much detail as possible.
2. Measurable
State how many, how much, what size, what
cost, etc. If your goal isn't measurable in some way, how will
you know when you've reached it?
3. Attainable
Ask yourself, "Can this be done?"
"Is it possible?" Losing twenty pounds in two weeks,
for example, is probably not an attainable goal.
4. Realistic
Ask yourself, "Am I willing to
do this?" While losing five pounds in two weeks may be
attainable, it is not realistic unless you are truly willing
to expend the equivalent of five pounds more energy than you
consume during that period.
5. Time-limited
Give yourself a target date or deadline for
achieving your goal.
As you can see, developing a SMART goal
requires a little more thought than simply voicing your desire
for something. We go around saying what we "want"
all the time, but unless we have a fairy godmother, wanting
doesn't get it for us. How many times have you said, "I
want to lose ten pounds," or "I want a new
car," or "I want a better job." If all you had
to do was want those things, you'd have them by now. To get
what you want, you have to put some power behind your desires.
That's the purpose of a SMART goal.
Take Quick Action
To turn a SMART goal into a reality,
develop—and follow—an action plan. Breaking the goal down
into manageable pieces makes it easier to achieve. It's like
the map we talked about earlier that guides you to your
destination, one mile (or step) at a time.
To develop a plan, first brainstorm all the
steps you need to take to achieve your goal. Don't worry yet
about getting them in any sort of order—just write them
down. When you have an exhaustive list, go back and decide
which step to take first, second, third and so on. Assign
realistic interim deadlines to each step. Generally speaking,
the more detailed your plan, the smaller each action will be
and the easier to achieve. Finally, never implement a plan so
single-mindedly that you become blind to feedback coming at
you from other people and the environment. Be willing to
adjust your plan if you get clear indications that something
isn't working. Evaluation should be ongoing.
Focus on End Results
Once your plan is in place, shift your
emotional focus to the desired end result of achieving
your goal. An end result is often different from its companion
goal. For example, if your goal is to earn an MBA degree, the
end result probably is not the piece of paper with its
official seal (unless you have a very strong desire to display
it and feel good every time you see it on the wall). The end
result is more likely the wall itself, which is part of the
corner VP office (the one with the view) that you'll occupy
when you land the coveted job for which the MBA qualifies you.
See the difference? The MBA is sort of a
lifeless concept (and probably associated with lots of hard
work and sacrifice), while the image of the new job is
exciting and compelling. Focusing on the MBA could generate
negative feelings and slow down goal achievement.
Focusing on the end result creates all sorts of positive
emotions and speeds up goal achievement.
Two major features characterize effective
end results. End results must:
1. Generate extremely strong feelings
2. Be outcomes that can only happen if and
when you reach your stated goal.
Create a Physical Image
Even if you are very skilled at seeing
pictures in your imagination, obtain or create some physical
symbol of your goal's end result—a clear image that you will
see over and over again in the same way.
Represent your end result as precisely as
possible. Use photographs, travel brochures, postcards, gummed
stickers or hand-drawn sketches. Make your picture bright and
colorful. If you want to buy a red car, be sure to have a
picture of a red car, not a blue one. Complete at least one
picture, or create several, each showing your end result in a
way that triggers strong feelings every time you view the
image.
Think SMART All Year
The SMART goal-setting process is
particularly effective with long-range goals, but short-term
goals deserve a quick check for their "smartness" as
well. When we think about the day ahead, most of us envision
numerous things that we want to accomplish. Some are planned
steps to achieving long-range goals, but others are mini-goals
in themselves. When we overload ourselves (and feel
disappointed by our lack of productivity at the end of the
day), it's often because certain things we set out to do were
vaguely defined, unrealistic, or unattainable in the first
place.
Finally, while there's nothing sacred about
January 1 for launching goals and plans—just about any day
will do—the mystique surrounding the start of a new year may
fill you with added excitement and resolve. Don't waste it.
When you sense momentum building, seize the moment—the SMART
way.
Copyright by Dianne Schilling. All
rights reserved. Reprinted, with permission, by InnerWorks
Publishing.
Dianne Schilling is an education/personal
development writer and instructional designer. You can read
more of her articles at www.womensmedia.com.
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