By
Rob
Cross
 |
What a breakthrough for me! Finally, I
no longer had to be upset because she’s different from
me or because she couldn’t see life my way. Go get a
good book on personality tests. Ya’ll both take it.
Check out those scores, look at each other and yelp, “Holy
cow! You’re not me”! |
I now love
CELEBRATING HER DIFFERENCES! It brings a new Deliciousness to
love! It adds Red Pepper & Zing! Imagine having a stew made
with just carrots. Hello! It would be a bland stew now wouldn't
it? Your partner is not you. For a good reason! Let this simple
truth crank your attitude from frustration to fascination as
your resisting her/his differences gives way to literally
enjoying and appreciating them!
MATER ACTION: Throw “WRONG” out the window of your
home right now. Go on! Your need to be "right" is
requiring that you make your partner wrong. We each just have a
different opinion and we will never decide on who's scorekeeper
anyway! Tell your partner what you LOVE about him/her. And
anything that you resist about them, know that the work to be
done is with your own resistance. Relax and laugh and celebrate
the things you don't understand!
Read (and
hear) more on this by clicking here.
Rob Cross www.TheUpsideDownGuy.com
(Back)
|